For so long I was "too emotionally invested in his life" and he felt smothered and unable to do things for himself.
Now that I am (trying to) letting him do his own thing and trying so hard not to ask questions (doesn't work very well - how do you make small talk with your husband if every topic has a 'dangerous' aspect?) he doesn't seems to appreciate me leaving him alone. It feels like he wants to come around, get his 'fix' from me and then trundle merrily(?) off to his bachelor life and expect that I would be okay with that. Ag...it's hard to explain to myself, let alone to him or a counsellor. That's the sucky part.
