Lots of good suggestions. One other thought, the kid's 9. Time for a father/son talk about responsibility. "Get your )%*)*# in gear boy" -- delivered nicely, of course.
BD

My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.