The experts ive talked to\read say its ok to let the kids know your emotions (sad, scared for example), but they need to be reassured it will be ok. And it will be ok.

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M 39
W 39
M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs
S7 D4
Bomb 5-8-05
W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22
DB 4-10
S 6-11
No more C
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