Tostada, I know everyone will not agree with me on this issue, but I think you are right in not being the one to leave the house if the two of you S. Also, if I were you, I would not give her any support financially except for child support. I say that b/c I think when a H makes it "easier" for the WAW....he is hurting his case. I am proof of that b/c I did not have the money to live out on my own and had to stay here....but in doing so, we are gradually working things out.

I would warn you to watch your bank account carefully. This is not the same woman you have known for years. She will do things she would never have done before. Be careful.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!