My God woman, how hard is it to have him ready to go, oh wait, she was too busy on the Freakin phone!!!!!!!
Ahhhhhhhhh
Sounds like a good opportunity to show her the laid-back you (was that one of your goals?): "No worries, hon, I'll take care of it." How big of a deal is it for a 9-year-old to be late for soccer (says the mama who freaked out about getting a 7-year-old to drawing class on time today)?
Maybe she was in the middle of a deep conversation about how upset she is about the state of her M.