Snodderly, WHY is it that it hits their 'IMAGINARY WALL' ?????????
Today again, I could tell that my H is still DEEEEEEEEEEP in his LALALAND !
WITH NO CLUE that he is the ONLY person in our circle of friends that sees things the way he does......; ALL the others can see that he is commiting adultery, being a fool, dumping a wonderful wife and kids for a GIRL.....
But I don't see how to break the 'spell' he's under...
so for now.....I accept and move along....my hope and feelings for him diminishing...that's scary.
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus