Exh came by and dropped off some baby stuff that he got. It was the first time I had seen him since his blowup on Saturday. I asked him if he wanted to talk about it and he said he already apologized and there was nothing to say. I told him that he was out of control when he is drinking and that if he wanted to be around his daughter when she is born he needs to quit.
He is back to being casual and evasive. Like he could care less if we see eachother anymore or not. Feels like he just wants to check in about the baby and go on his merry way.
I blew it after he left and sent a text asking him if he wanted to spend some time together tonight since we both didn't have our kids. He said maybe later that he had some stuff to do to get ready for his hunting trip. I know that means no. We haven't spent any real time together for almost 2 weeks. Sure he comes around during the week for a cup of coffee and 10 minutes of conversation but that's it. I know I shouldn't have asked him to do that.
I really think he has every intention of being a part time dad when it suits him and then leave and go about his life the rest of the time.
Does anyone know anything about child custody/visitation? I am kind of thinking if this is how he wants it then I have to have some boundaries in place. Not just let him come and go when he pleases.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
