In regards to moving out: I just don't want you to get screwed. However, I can totally understand you not wanting to be there for the emotional/sanity reasons. Definitely get that sep agreement in writing and signed and notorized or whatever has to be done to be legal, then move.
you know, what really will shock him is going to be you still GALing and finding your own happiness, even though he is screwing up your life that you thought you had, but you don't let him and you move on just fine, while he...thinks he's moved on, but he's still unhappy. One day, he's gonna figure this out, and it might end up being too late for him. I hope not, but it sounds like he's got his work cut out for him for a quite a while.
I would take all the nice new things you put in your room and take it to the spare one. I still say it should be HIM moving into the spare room, but guess he's being selfish about that and figures he already did it the first time, now it's your turn.
well, i had a relapse on my back, due to my 3 year old having an "accident" all over me and the bathroom and it caused me to jerk hard and so I'm not doing too well right now. so I'm hoping to be able to check on you here and there. Have a good time on your little vaca, if I remember right, and let us know what the L says. I would talk to more than one though. I talked to one briefly on the phone and they didn't charge or anything, so just calling around saying you haven't gotten a lawyer yet, but wanted to know what rights you have on the house and stuff to protect yourself. I think most wouldn't mind giving you some info.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
