I started to write you on your other thread, lost the post, then it locked.
In a nutshell, I was really dumbfounded by your interactions with W. Some really pretty unattractive stuff going on. Enough said.
It might be helpful to read the Five Languages of Apology. Your "apology" to W for the assault (what was it anyway?), amounted to a lot of defensive, invalidating statements that made her pain all about you.
