What I mean by what I said is that from the moment I knew about the A and we knew we were staying together I saw all correspondence and was aware of all meetings that took place. I saw all texts. My H copied me all emails between OW and H and also showed me his replies. I also had a couple of nast conversations with OW and also less nast ones and emails with her H. My H came and saw my psychiatrist with me and talked things through, (I had hurt myself badly which is why we ended up there). It was all very open. Parents were kept informed etc. He showed me all back correspondence - stuff from OW's H and her parents to my H. Everything added up. She left his employ and we sought her separation from the company through legal channels.
It was all transparent, above board and 'felt right'.
Does that help?
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
