She's thinking with her emotions, not challenging the thoughts in her head. What if , what if ... they could kill you, those "what if..."
Could you guys see a M councelor? sometimes a third party is needed to show the MLCer his/her craziness.
Piecing is hard, perhaps she thought everything would solve itself by magic, that all would go according to HER idea of what an M should be, (we all watch too many movies, in real life things dont' work that way).
Piecing is 2 steps forward one step back. Don't try to convince her of anything, sadly, her issues were unresolved when she came back and she still needs to deal with them. How? maybe T on her own if not MC with you, perhaps.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.