I like it! And why not. Focus on you. Not if she will be upset. Ok?
I hear you, and I am focusing on me -- which is why I didn't even consider the idea until the girls brough it up. I haven't even told her who I'm going with or anything (no reason to, unless I wanted to try to upset her). I do, however, think this is one of those tunnels I should explore for cheese, since I've pretty much exhausted all of the other ones to no avail. This is a Homer-esk strategy, is it not? I think it's a trying something new and taking stock thing. I've got nothing else to lose -- I'm prepared for and okay with the D at this point, though my preference is still to reconcile. It's not to make her upset, but rather to see what kind of reaction I get, both short and long term. I honestly couldn't help but see a little devilish humor in her getting a taste of her own medicine though! I'd only be lying to myself if I didn't admit to that. Just shows that I'm not detached enough yet, though I'm making moves and choices that are getting me closer.
