Okay, now that you know that you are not on the same page, back off and give her room. Do not question where the R stands. Just be pleasant, but not overly. Think of her as a good friend now that doesn't want to talk about what is bothering her.
Continue do your part of the chores and child rearing. Watch TV with her etc. but keep conversation and interaction light. She is confused and you don't want to push her into something that you both will regret. I believe they definitely go through a mental illness during this time.
Do not act sad and needy.
Hang in there, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
