at least one good thing, i'm not calling him, or even e-mailing him, and going off on him, right? I'm not snarking or sarcastic about how things turned out. I'm not blasting him for letting me down. I'm not railing at him to be a real f-ing man. I'm not crying and complaining to him about how much he has hurt me. I'm just feeling it, I guess. and venting to you all here. so that, I suppose, is progress. right?
YES! That IS progress!
Feel good about yourself for that
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle