Hey GD, great GALing man. You sound good. I say go 4 it. You have nothing to lose at this point. She made her bed. Show her a glimpse of your new life w/o her. I feel the same way about my sitch. I don't really want to be friends where we see eachother on a daily basis. I want to do the daycare pickup as well so I can truly have closure. I dont like the fact that she still thinks Im going to be her friend that she can count on to take care of her. I'm done enabling her. If she wants the new me she will have to work for it like I have. Work on herself I mean.