I had called her at work and said I was feeling left out and felt that she was embarrassed to be back home. I seriously was very calm and reassuring that I was not trying to stop her from doing anything. I emphasized I was not mad, only that I felt hurt. She emailed me the following:
WIFE - Please don't call here acting like that again. I'm at work I have enough stress to deal with here and I don't need that on top of it. ME - Ok, I'm sorry. I wasn't trying to stress you out.