WTF is going on :-( Is this normal??

[MariS]

goinginsanehere

First, it is GREAT to hear that your WAW chose to come back and has said the wonderfull things to you. YES, she IS going to question herself. Do not take it personally....listen to what she says and validate with out accusations. Give her the space and time, while you continue to DB, GAL and show that you have done a 180.

My basic stitch is that WAH-MLCer is physically at the home w/child and I, but still hangs on to his family's condo. The D is still filed, but I'm not served. He IS STILL in the MLCE tunnel and the alien continually raises it's ugly head spews forth venum. Every so often, the question is thrown out why are we doing this? Nothing has changed. I don't love you. Everyone say's it is your fault and the reason I am unhappy. OW and I traveled w/friends and she has more to offer.

UGH!!!!

This is a roller coaster ride, with no guarantee that it will end at the station with all passangers safe, or if it will derail.

Time will tell you what you need to know and will continue to give your the intuition and strength you need to gage each situation w/your W.

Keep a positive As If outlook...

Sending you PMA and Atta Boys.

:-)

The MLCer's are similiar to young children, we must hold our ground firmly, but with a gentle hand.