Hello everyone. I didn't think I would be posting so quickly again.
We are still together but I really want to eat a bullet. My wife has been back for 10 days now and the first 6 days were great. She was apologetic, loving, etc. But now the last 3 days or so have been a emotional terror. She's been questioning herself coming back now. She says it's the same old thing at home. She said there is nothing in the relationship and questions that she didn't give it enough time to be on her own. Remember SHE IS THE ONE that wanted to come home 10 days ago. She kissed me, hugged me, cried, said she loved me and was so sorry. She said I was her best friend and that I was the only one important to her, etc. We made love with so much emotion, etc and she "finished" during lovemaking. So now I feel I'm back to square one. How can she so openly be glad to be back home and telling me she loves me and holding hands (which she never does) to being cold and standoffish and questioning everything. She broke her apartment lease and even went back to a joint bank account and canceled her single acct. But now she has cold feet about dissolving our separation agreement. 7 days ago she couldn't wait to sign the papers to get rid of the separation agreement, now she wants to hold off and think about it? WTF is going on here????