Just got back to the computer to give some feedback & find that Nomopo beat me to the thoughts I was having this morning.
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My guess: you're scared that if you make a move to more separation (eg, changing your living arrangements and. more importantly, stopping going over there every day just about)
things don't seem to be getting better the way they are now (and maybe can't get better the way they are now)
While it might seem safe to keep the status quo, the safety is really just an illusion. I think we're all afraid that making changes will somehow send the WAS over the edge, when in fact it will probably free them up to take a look in our direction, unless they're already not going to in any case.
Have to run (literally),
Sunny
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Part of my self healing is to stop beating myself up for whatever I am not doing and be patient. Sound familiar?
I agree with you CVA, it's not a good idea to rush into anything without thinking it thru, and for a personality type that likes to push things through, it's especially important.
