What is reasonable and what is not?

[Startingover2]

After a few days of his casual 'hope you have a good day. love you' texts I had to contact him.

I just got the phone call we have been waiting for for almost 2 weeks. My amniocentecis results came back great! I have been on edge waiting. I knew the chances were slim that something wasn't right, but still until you hear the results its in your mind.

I sent him a text telling him that the test results were back. He immediately called. It was nice to hear his voice. I told him and he was relieved as well. He said 'well maybe you can sleep better'. Like that was the only thing on my mind.

All of a sudden it all hit me and I felt myself start to cry and lose it. I think it was all the pent up emotion. I told him I had to go and hung up. I cried and let it out. Sent him a text apologizing and that I must have been emotionally overwhelmned. He sent on back saying 'I understand but I am her dad and you should be able to talk to me.' Uh, ya, you would think! Yes, he is her dad and I will tell him what is happening with her, but after the past events I don't feel safe. Yes, he does love and care about her, but makes choices to destroy me. Maybe not intentionally, but he does.

I just wanted to update....talk soon.