THBA,

Listen to CL he has a knack for knowing what should be done to achieve what we desire.

CL, For me it was Intamacy(or is it sex), Civility, friendship.
AT least thats the way it seems sometimes. ;\)

JAK

You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez