Ok...now she's in ultra angry mode. Do I ignore her and not engage? Do I defend myself? She's angry with all of her friends who (she feels) are judging her. She feels everything she has done is justified and beyond reproach, but people don't like how she's speaking about me behind my back, nor are they happy about her cheating and lying. She wouldn't even have had the time of day for someone who has done what she's done, yet now she's angry at everyone else, but taking it out on me. I basically vent on this site, not to people who know her, so I have just treated her the way I want to be treated--with kindness and compassion. And all I get back is anger and bitterness. I thought she was so bloody "happy" with her new life??!!
"In every marriage more than a week old, there are grounds for divorce. The trick is to find, and continue to find, grounds for marriage." -- Robert Anderson
