Mwel - do not fret. She is just reacting as a WAW does. They do not know what they want. They are jeckyl and Hyde right now. They are two different people in there. There is the W that you had and then there is this person that has snatched her away right now. She is very confused still.
It was great of you not to answer her texts and whenever they send things like that do not respond at all. Just let it go. Also you were just being honest with her as she was being with you so she can not fault you for that. You both have different feelings right now and she needs to accept that.
I think you did great. Do not worry about the benefits thing either at this point she is so confused she just does not want to be tied to you in any way. Mine flipped out because I bought us new cell phones and extended our contact 2 more years and has refused to use the phone. How childish is that since we have a S together so we are tied anyway so why not use the phone and if things do not work out we can cancel in two years. It is not as if we will never see each other again.
They just want to be away from us and depending upon us and by having benefits thru you she is tied to you in a way that she may feel is too much right now.
Hang in there just always remember to think before you act or speak. I have learned that the hard way.
