wait wait!!! I remember an interesting topic! Remember spouse took DD out to dinner w/ OW last weekend? Spouse mentioned how "smart" DD was because DD asked her "so do you see OW much?" I'm sure spouse felt a bit "grilled" but explained "yes, we get together for coffee and sometimes on my day off we see each other" (yeah, right, let's keep this age appropriate.) DD then started discussing a set of close family friends who are separated and asking lots of questions about where children live when parents split, etc etc...she went on to ask where she would live if spouse and I separated. I'm sure this all turned spouse's stomach. A very big dose of reality.
I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it. Stubby
