I guess I overreacted. I did resist calling or emaling him out of anger. I called my SIL and told her our 48 hour rule on our forum so she coached me down. I think we all need someone in our lives to remind us of that 48 hour rule! Because today I can laugh at it, I am only mad because he is living with someone so young and still will not admit it. Of course now everything he does, I see through affair glasses. The worst symbol was when he wore that tight little shirt with the date HAWAII 1984 splashed on it. He bought it post affair bomb. Is he a walking ad for banging yonger girls? Sick She was born that year and that is when we went to our first U2 concert. helloooo! Creepy. He is not just having an affair. he is obsessively in love and extremely loyal and protective. No one can talk sense into him..
My SIL has also been with my Bro since they were 14. They are also very attached like my H and I were but they have many issues too. I wonder if that is because my brother and I went through the divorce the same time we met our spouses? I know Donna knows how I feel about that.
Nevermind. That is in the past. I just want to break that cycle for my D6.
Thank you for the birthday wishes!!! I will picnic with my children then open my gifts that their father helped pick out. I have to brace myself for that. I am sure I will cry that he is not there and I will not know why? Then I will go to Little Italy with six lovely ladies and shoe shop and pub crawl and eat Irish pub food! Hopefully see some cute Irish guys. Hee hee.
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Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
