I was almost a WAW (and still am-- in my heart?)

[Dom R]

Random update on ME.. I spend the night where my wife lives last night. [her parents' house]
!

Unfortunately, it was more of a "help me out" kind of thing, rather than a specifically enjoyment-oriented thing: the gas at my/our house was turned off, until today. But it was the first time I've ever been over there and gotten to help our children to sleep, and spend non-vacation evening time with her.
Separate beds this time, as opposed to vacation. Probably in part to do with her mother being there, but W didnt seem particularly comfortable with even a shoulder rub last night anyway.

That being said... I'm really really glad that I got the opportunity to be over there. I hope seeing that it "can be done", without armageddon happening, might make her feel more comfortable about doing it again some time.