Brandnewday,

Piecing with an H at home I think is harder than it is if we were separated. There are so many times that i thought it would be easier if we were apart then the pins and needles thought wouldn't be there so much.

I would suggest first that they go to a councelor. Your friend mentions a lot about what H needs to do but what about her? she can not be that perfect. She should look at herself and maybe her expectations of her H too.


I would suggest that they get the book the five love languages and read it together or separatly and do the test in the back and work from there. I would also certainly recomend the DR book.

Mybe they should look into a retrovaille weekend near them Iv'e heard they they help so much.

I'll have to think some more on the subject and post back but thats a start.

At least they know that they have to work on the M.

JAK


You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez