Sorry to hear about the cash situation. My H pulled some of that on me in the beginning. We sort of sorted it out but it took a while.

Is her lack of contributing hurting your finances? Credit ratings, mortgages, utilities?

Or just taking away from the pot so to speak?

Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.