My H cut off OW contact there and then. I was involved - it sure helps with the healing. On here you see so many people where their spouse is still involved with OP - what are they doing - insuring they don't get left alone if the return home doesn't work? Wanting to be liked and not thought badly of?
I can understand it whilst everything is still in a state of flux but once the decision has been made to continue on with the M/R then OP MUST go. If they are not willing to do this for the M/ R I would question the returning S's commitment personally.
I know that mentally I could not have coped woth OP continuing to be in the equation.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
