Stub, the reality is they CANNOT be friends. But, the question is do you sit down and make outright demands or boundaries with her? If she's serious then she has to recognize that it's not just a matter of floating back into your life, which means she can just as easily float back out! Do you say NO CONTACT? I'm torn because, on one hand, you don't want to make unreasonable (in her eyes) demands that push her back to OW but you also don't want to be a doormat who just takes whatever crumbs she tosses you as long as she stays with you. Anybody got some advice here?
I'd be curious to know the answer to this question also.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
