HI mwel I think purchasing those tickets was a great idea. It will really surprise her if it is not something you would normally do. Don't expect though for just those tickets to start making you attrative for her again. It will get her thinking and wondering so just keep it up. Continue to listen to her and be there for her and do not mention that other guy again. You act as if about that and as if you do not know or care. It is tough and I am doing it right now. So I know your pain but that is what you have to do right now. Did she call you at all? Good luck and keep up posted.
thanks for the reply Lissie. Normally I do not go to the theater, plays or musicals, she has always tried to get me to go. She has always wanted me to go to the nut chracker also, so maybe I can get tickets for that but I do not want to over do it. I do not mentation the other guy and as hard as it is, I try to think that nothing happened. I do not expect her to completely do a 180 on her decision, I know it will take some time but Im hoping something will happen to her that weekend. I want her to see that I am not the selfish person I once was and I am interested in things that she wants to do or enjoys. She really doesn't call, she will just send text messages.
I think I made a mistake, on Friday night I got a voice mail from what I thought was an law office, so I asked her if she contacted a lawyer and she said no and we didnt need one. All she has to do is file for the papers and then sign them. Here is my mistake, I told her that right now I am in no position to sign anything, she got upset and sent me 3 text messaged telling me to "just sign them, just sign them, just sign them"..I didnt reply to them because I know that things would go south if I did. The next afternoon she texted me as if everything was okay and she got over me telling her that I wasnt going to sign the papers. I never bring up our R when we talk, I just listen and pay attention to what she is saying...
