HI mwel I think purchasing those tickets was a great idea. It will really surprise her if it is not something you would normally do. Don't expect though for just those tickets to start making you attrative for her again. It will get her thinking and wondering so just keep it up. Continue to listen to her and be there for her and do not mention that other guy again. You act as if about that and as if you do not know or care. It is tough and I am doing it right now. So I know your pain but that is what you have to do right now. Did she call you at all?