Divorced but CANNOT "move on": Urgent Help Needed!

[Fender]

Move on but don't give up. That is what I was trying to tell you. Go dark, very dark. Read the LRT and apply it to your sitch.

As someone said earlier, pursuit is what I see from you and as Michele tells us in DB and DR, pursuit doesn't work. That is why I asked you what you were doing having sleep overs at your XW's house?

You have to let her sink or swim on her own. Work on yourself as someone else said. Be mysterious, get a hobby, go to the gym, sign up for night classes, join a club of some kind, whatever. Just don't persue her.

That means no calls, no e-mails, no texts, no snooping, no grilling the kids for info on her. Sometimes going dark shows them that you can live without them. This can, not always, lead to them becoming interested in you all over again.