H has left have I Done the right thing

[Evie]

hi all,

Will post more later, my head is in a spin.

Thanks Dom for stopping by. Your words were reassuring. I have tried to talk to H about the reasons for leaving, but he is not reaaly listening or doesn't want to listen. He thinks that because he doesn't feel the same way about me it's ok to leave but that doesn't make it right though does it? What about the commitment to the family? He just seems content to move on and sort out a routine for the boys.

He wants to meet for dinner on Thursday and I don't want to put any pressure on him or to come across as begging/pleading, but I don't know how to say things in a way that he will listen, but I want him to consider coming back.

We don't seem to have retrouville or marriage building weekends in the uk unfortunately.