Agent99... lots to read here but in a nutshell wanted to say GOOD JOB for not having sex when you didn't feel like it. That's hugely important.

On the moving out... I think some of it's legal and some of it's a control thing. When you're already taking a lot of "abuse" (or hurt, or whatever) from the WAS it's like adding insult to injury to also lose your home.

If you're in a place where you are excited about a new home, or like in your case where the place you're staying doesn't feel like a permanent home to you, I think moving can make sense. Just make 100% sure (or as close as possible) that you're protected financially.


Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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