LWB, yes I was being facetious. And did have a typo. No wonder you couldn't understand it. At Retrouvaille they teach that you should avoid saying hurtful things in the name of truth. Not that you should avoid telling the truth. But you should not tell it in a hurtful way. I was referring to the line about he is only still there for the kids. He could find a way to say that he feels a responsibility to the family without being hurtful to you.
