Joy! My BFF and her H came to do karaoke all night with me at work! Her H demanded that she take me to our reunion even if it was his birthday, her reason for not going.
I also spoke with the man that got run over by the OM and tazered this weekend. He looks like a typical gangster druggie but he is still allowed to come into the bar. But I saw the hurt little boy in his eyes. Teacher that I am. I sat with him and revealed that I found out that my sweet H was also cheating for many months. I told him that I had no hatred in my heart for him or the OP. I told him sometimes people don't act like parents or grown ups , they want to act like kids again, especially when they are messed up in their head or hearts. I told him to remember that he has to be a grandparent with his wife someday so he has to at least fake being her friend.
His W slept with his childhood best friend who is engaged to our head bartender! What a mess.
I should just have my copy of DB and DR and sell it at the bar or start a book club for all the Lonely Hearts. Everyone has a story down there.
Thank you Morgan and Donna. PMA!
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
HUGS MK. Your H is just PO'd because it hit him that he was not invited. Under his anger he is hurt. These are the consequences of his bad choices. He has to deal with this. See it foer what it is and don't let it ruin yout week, which sounds great btw. I think our H is coming out of his fog a little and starting to see how life transformed in his absence. He'll get over it.
AS for your your bar, OMG. You should start a DB reality show using all the people in the bar. You could make millions!
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Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9
okay, mk, I have this vision of you like the liquor/beer girls that walk around bars and give out t-shirts for their product and stuff. you could do the same, but with db/dr. seriously. omg, you are perfect.
I think you are wonderful.
and yay for BFF!
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
Morgan!!!! I know you are high from the mountain of GAL but I kind of need you right now as we are both facing eventful weeks. OK not a big deal but I just peaked at the birthday card my H got me and I had to immediately throw it away. You may need to brace yourself if your H also gets you such a cold meaningless card for your anniversary. I dunno. Don't mind me. I am trying not to be insulted but...
You know how my H and I are the biggest U2 fans? He got a card that had a cartoon of the aging rockers spewing jokes about getting older: flabby skin, beer gut, wrinkles, grey hair. Then the joke inside says--U2?
Is that supposed to be funny considering he is screwing a bar tramp that is only 23 and dresses like a teenager? While beautiful me is turning a 38 alone???
Then he wrote something in purple crayon that went something like: M, This card does not apply to you but I could not resist. Thank for being so helpful. Have a Happy Birthday. H.
OK? Ass. He is such an ass.
Morgan, Neph, LWB, Donna, I would have prefered nothing to this.
Tell me I am overreacting! Does he really think we are at the friend stage where he could get a stupid over rhe hill gag card????
He looks ten years older than me!!!
People must think he is his mistress's father!!! calmblueocean
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Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
mk, I didn't even get a card from my H for my birthday this year. he did send flowers from he and the kids, but he didn't even get me a stupid card. f him.
the u2 one actually sounds cute. don't hate me. It almost sounds like he was trying to be cute/reconnect to things you loved....maybe he is starting to feel old around ow. not that you are old, of course you aren't, but maybe being around someone so young is making him feel older, ya know? and trust me, you and all your hotness does NOT look like the guy in the card.
calmblueocean, mk, calmblueocean
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
