ok, this is like a fairy tale. Spouse is talkative, happy, friendly, warm etc etc...I guess the mother ship finally landed. I hope more of you find your "returned and reprogramed" spouse soon!
She has gone to OW to break it to her that they are through. Hopefully this will get her thrown out on her ear. The current fantasy is they can be "friends" eventually. I think NOT but am not going to voice anything more than "she doesn't want to be your friend" until after this discussion. Hitting that topic now will only make me look "petty" and besides OW may be about to solve the problem for me! hope hope hope!!!
I told spouse this afternoon that she seemed much more relaxed and she said: I realize I have to open up to you and stop walling myself off in order to make this work.
I see and hear things that make me think this is for real but I want to be slow. We are taking a small family trip next weekend. Thanks for all your good wishes and I sincerely mean it when I say I hope this for all of you who want it.
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I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it. Stubby
