I always like taking the high road and the bigger person route. It has always worked for me so I agree, A.H.
W.L. I need more stuff on the Rat to get a restraining order so I am going to my T tomorrow with XH.
Yup, XH suggested this for tomorrow. This should be interesting.
I am not overly hopeful nor pessimistic. I am going to listen to what XH has to say and then I will talk about my concerns with the Rat, the fiasco about threatening to take the kids away without my persmission, etc. However, it is very important to me not to make this a gripe session, either. I need to remain postiive and make sure I let my C do the talking, too. My C knows the deal and what I think of the Rat, etc. He will remain even-keeled but let XH know that the Rat has been nothing but a negative impact on the kids. Coming from my C will be better if the C chooses that route.
Not sure what my C will do but he is a wonderful man and I trust his judgement.
All I want are more tools on how to deal with Xh and the kids. I want to make sure these kids feel loved, secure and safe.
So, my appt with C with XH is tomorrow.
I haven't sat on a couch with XH since pre-divorce..Kind of giving me the "heebie jeebies'"
