At this point, if she were to do so, it would be sending a clear message that, at this point, she cannot convey
I think my H feels the same way about our bed. He put himself on the couch in June and I stopped asking a LONG time ago. I don't think he'll be ready to come back for a long long time.
You really did well this weekend, Mark. I am so proud of you. Some wouldn't be able to tackle a weekend like that with in laws, especially some that aren't supporting your marriage. And then you have to watch W leave this week?! Oh man, you are strong. Funny how W is suspicious of you, I have been getting that from H lately too. I agree, good AND bad.