my wife's been out of town for 4 days visiting friends in NYC. We had our first contact today via email. It was cordial and friendly. I asked her what she had been doing....lots of shopping. We'll, I've noticed that she hasnt pulled any money from our account and hasnt really used our credit cards. It doesnt really match up to her 'ability' to shop for 3 days in the big city. Over the past month she has virtually not deposited any money into our account from her job and she has pulled out amounts that are not normal for her. I believe she cashed her checks and made frequent withdrawls and took cash with her on her trip so I wouldnt see how much spending or shopping she was doing. To me, this could be totally dishonest and on the edge of stealing from our family. Not sure how to ask her about this. I sort of asked her that I was surprised as I thought she would be doing more shopping, but theres not much loaded onto our visa. She told me about all the clothes she had bought, so I know she was spending.
Anyway...I dont know how to deal with it without her getting totally pissed at me for acusing her of this.
