Very perceptive, MPT. I like your conversation analogy (and I might have to use it ).
Quote: Is there a chance all of this seems to be coming out of the blue to your wife?
Yes, there's a big chance. I suppose it's a bit surprising. Like an "overnight success" who worked for ten years to hit the big time. This has actually been going on for a long time, but I've only recently been able to articulate what's wrong, thanks, I think, to SSM...
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