heya Amy,
thinking of you.
Im really glad that your husband may be getting the "serious help", that he seems to need.

some quick thoughts:

- i think you handled yourself really well on that phone call where you told him that "you all wanted him to get better", and left it at that. That's showing some great PMA and unconditional love for your H

- I think you "need to detach".. from mother-in-law

- I dont think it's a good idea to "mess with his mind" about you dating other men. The poor man's mind is messed up enough as it is, ya know?

May God comfort you and support you and your family in this rough time. I dont know if you are Christian or not, but for some reason, it seemed to me like you really need a prayer for you right now.


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle