I've been thinking about what I would say if it comes to it with my H -- and this is pretty much it. I love you, but...
... I refuse to live any longer in a three person marriage... That's what I said anyway.
I talked to one of my friends today who knows about the A. She's just one of those good listeners who doesn't push or make judments about what I should or shouldn't do. I have a couple VERY judgmental friends who know about my sitch and a couple who are just good listeners. It's nice to know that if I walked out today, I would have about 6 or 7 options on where to stay
