Luke, I'm with ya! I got a small yellow sticky note saying "gone to Japan" and then she has the nerve to call and ask if there's anything I'd like her to bring back! Been there, done it, guy. Does it feel good? Hell NO but what do we expect from the S's we've got, really. Should we be surprised that S's who have stepped outside the M would go away without telling us? I don't think so. So, feel the pain and let it go. Think about what Luke is going to do for Luke while she's gone. That's my 2 cents anyway. Oh, and the anger will mellow too, believe me. I know it feels really intense right now and you can't imagine it fading but it will...honest! So don't do anything right now because it will be based on anger...wait a bit. OK?