What I saw in my H was that for the last few years he has wanted to build a house so bad. After the bomb, I found out he wanted to build that house so bad, because he thought it would make me happier and in turn, make him happier.
My H said the same exact thing regarding the decision to have our second son. He said "I thought it would bring us closer". Gosh, these MLCers sure do read from the same script!
