She brought by some of the papers today for the divorce... really not what I was hoping for. I asked her if she was sure and she said that she'd done a lot of thinking and was sure. However, she said that she wasn't in a rush and we could file in January if it would make taxes easier.

Not sure what to do at this point. I guess it's time.

I'm just sad thinking about all the should have's / could have's....