oh whapu, my heart sinks as I read your post, I'm so sorry you had such an awful time))))))) I agree with MrH, your W is so self-absorbed right now and acting her shoe size, unbelievable. I so wish you wouldn't have to quiet your meetings, perhaps you could replace them w/a good C now and then to keep your sanity amid all the chaos?
I see you doing so much work and I do give you credit for trying to make your W's bday a good one, even if she doesn't deserve it, for doing so much at home, not every man has to deal with so much housework WHILE holding a job, you are amazing in my book.
Hope you find some time alone to decompress and detoxify emotionally from the crap your W is tossing at you, it's hard to stay mentally healthy around someone who deflects toxins around you, hard not to get dragged down.. but I pray you are able to remember that her mind is distorted, that you are a great father and a good husband, if only she'd stop looking at her unhappiness in the mirrow she'd see this.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
