Good for you! Honestly, piecing or not, your number one priority MUST be taking care of YOU. If YOU aren't meeting your needs, you cannot be of use to anyone else.

I still feel guilty sometimes, but then I remind myself of how resentful, impatient, and uncompassionate I am if I'm not in a good space. The best way to be loving to my H is to be loving to ME first. It's only then that I have anything to give.

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!