Does it matter how you tell spouse that you've had enough? LO has told H she will give him a divorce. Is that the ideal approach or should you tell spouse that "I love you but I've had enough. I don't want to live like this anymore. I want a D." Or does the approach even matter?
I told H that I couldn't live like this anymore. I gave him everything that I could and it just wasn't enough. My H proceeded with the D rather than come back...he couldn't face his own demons.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
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